Hate; in order to be disciple ( words of Jesus )

Jesus said if you don't HATE ( not passionate ) your father, mother, wife, children, brother, sister, and your own life; YOU CAN'T BE HIS DISCIPLE! what a statement; comparing to Jesus, you should have no passion for your life, or others; the reason is because, with the focus on following Jesus, your love, and passion for others will accidentally happen! ( Lk 14:26 ) God bless